Sunday, 30 May 2010

Condolences

One of the problems of being away from home is not being able to share in grieving for those who have died. Over the last few weeks Peter has lost an uncle and Jane a person who had a great influence in her life.
Uncle Derrick was Peter's father's youngest brother and like most of his father's family he lived in Devon all his life - why would anyone choose to live anywhere else?
Joan had a zest and enthusiasm for life which was infectious. She always had time for everyone and was a real people's person.
Bereavement is quite different over here. The funeral is the day after the death (Uncle Derrick's funeral was 2 weeks after he died). This is followed by 3 days of condolences when a hall is hired as a place where people can visit the family of the deceased to express their sadness.

2 comments:

The Grants said...

Goodness me brother, what are you listening to...download Killers or you could listen to Muse -seeing as the bass player is your 2ndish cousin removed...! Phil passed his car theory test today and has had bbq for his birthday - but because its so cold and windy in good old Devon - we finished it off indoors....Sues xx

The Grants said...

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